Good Morning
I have been separated for almost a year now ...from a controlling ex and I am planning to file for divorce soon because I cannot handle his outbursts and madness
He became sick after our separation .. the only family he have is his sister (even though their relationship is not so great),
Am I still responsible to take care of him?
Our marriage lasted for 29 yrs
I am against being “just friends” after separation or divorce !
Any comments will be greatly appreciated
Thank you in advance

No, you do not have to be responsible or care for him. My husband was in an accident. Because there was no other family to care for him I tired. He became more dependent on me instead of independent trying to keep me there. After a while, I caught on and moved out, and filed for divorce. Please don't let him trap you.