When I started feeling alone, I decided that I need to reconnect with some old friends I had and I started finding things I liked to do to fill my time. I had to get out of my head and learn how to take care of myself. I had put so much into him that I didn't know anything else. This is when you learn to live. I ask god daily to help me through, he has not failed me yet. Join a church, or a women's group, volunteer your time for a worthy cause or start a new hobby. Find something that fills the void. I hope this helps. It has helped me. Good Luck.