Hello Everyone
During arguments with my husband of 30 yrs he yell at me saying “Get out of my house” “Go Go “ and he had called me “Piece of
S_ _t” “Grow up” and I felt Sad that he yell all this words when we fight on and off,
Just because I did not agree with him of something that was not even important to discuss.
Is it normal for a husband to feel this much anger towards me the way he said during a irrelevant issue?
I have two adults children that have their own life and my husband have a So So relationship with them, and he tells me that I am always on their side instead of his side.
Depends on the situation.
I am sick and tired of these arguments that arises on and off by not supporting him by not being on his side .
And when he tells me WHY I am not on his side ?
I tell him What is right is right and What is wrong is wrong
And then he will stop talking to me .
He thinks that I always have be on his side no matter What even if he is wrong. 😡 just because I am his wife
I am 60 and he is 65 I do not Know what to do ?
Sometimes I just feel like leaving this long time marriage so my Life can be more peaceful but I feel that at this age is too late to get divorce.
He is not wiling to go to marriage counselor .
He have some health issues that unfortunately that will get worst as life goes on....
I don’t know what to do !?
I feel that I am staying in this marriage because of his health issues even though he is still capable to take care of him independently .
I need Help !
Thank you in advance for any suggestions

Liza, life is too short to be unhappy. It doesn't matter how old you are. Know your worth and move on with your life. I know that's easier said than done, but I think you will be much happier in the long run.