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Brutal honest woman’s opinion on your abuse!

Women know more than you guys think.

I’m not entirely sure this is a good thing.
I wish I was that ignorant woman again,
Silly and happy.. and only being upset about buying the wrong shampoo or something.
Yet I had to grow up fast, take off those rose tinted glasses…. To REAL LIFE.

So this is my story.

How I can put it into a way for all to understand ( on this forum) ( to men)

Is it even ok/ safe/ right to call you men….?!
It’s getting that way tho isn’t it…..

I don’t think there are enough words to express my anger, worry, fear, when dating/ getting to know a man.

We are told to be careful, cover up,
Yet told other things.. to be more adventurous.. wear make up..or your man will stray../ get bord.

The thing is- your man you are with is already there.. with the boredom.
He knows what’s on the internet and has already placed lies and pain into your world..

The thing is… so many don’t even know it.

Internet porn is worse than ever.. plus decades of watching women getting raped, beaten, strangled to name afew are in your heads…now, years of damage done.

But in reality this is the content that excites you.

So before going futher.. understand why a woman finds it hard in accepting this, and wanting to leave you should she ever .. discover your real, dirty, secret habit…

That’s the reality of what we get as a package deal when dating you.
You get the women with kids…
We get…
Dating you and your porn stash.
Shall I now mention other content ( we know about) that you can’t admit to and hide when confronted ….
Child trafficking, abuse, incest, strangulation, lesbians, men banging men, teenagers, babies.. animals.. goats, pigs , horses yes.. that’s the thing isn’t it with porn.. ANYTHING goes.

Please don’t sound suprised.

Don’t.

But then you lot are good at hiding it, putting on that mask and looking like a good person!
Infact the sinister the better!..we are learning.

Getting more wise to this!


You think with all those dirty ugly degrading thoughts in your heads.. it’s actually “safe” for you to be around our children??? Teenagers,
Infact any one any age../ pets?!!

Yes that’s how unbelievable this is.. pets aswell you heard right.


You come with problems the moment we date you, and in return .. it’s US who get them too. ( nice)!
We have to work over time in our heads, what the hell that relationship was..
piecing together all those shady times you’d slip into another room for hours…
once we find out what you do… that’s it, from experience….

Game over.
Thing is, we can’t undo it.
You want us to.. for a better life for YOU
But We can’t erase those dirty videos we’ve sadly stumbled across on your laptop , phone .. or can we happily carry on once that trust is broken.
Just like you can’t undo those exact images and videos you’ve ****** over.. and told us.. sorry not tonight love.. I’ve got a headache!

I mean really?! It’s laughable isn’t it, phrases women usually use, and with good reason after all .. all that over thinking, plus womens problems naturally give us those headaches, reasons to say.. not tonight to you.

Yet men are ment to always be horny…
I can’t ever recall a man not wanting sex when I dated…

Yet it’s now actually.. the DONE thing, the NEW thing… sorry not tonight.. I’m too tired!!!
This is what we now face when dating you because porn is much better than the real thing now.
You have ****** yourself to other girls and when we want intimacy.. we can’t.
Not only that.. the moment is killed when we try but.. your bits don’t work.
We are faced with the repercussions of PORN

The content keeps you glued.

You lock us in, feed us bull ****, lie, deny, twist things, give us this huge fake sense of security….
It’s actually CRUEL!!!

You mess with our emotions.

Imagine your loving devoted wife doing what you do..??
Atleast try.
viewing loads of hunky muscly well endowed men……daily I need to add..
how many headaches would you get?
Infact you would not be able to cope!

To even be comical about it.. a lot might even get off to it, after all anything sex based is your thing!

We get sucked in to this rat race of thinking being married, partnered up, family, house.. false fairy tale lifestyle is how life should be.

No one really tells us women just how many other women that person you invest in.. will be wacking one out to the moment we date you.
And thro out the whole entire relationship.

True tho isn’t it.

Many couples split and this reason is kept quiet.

It’s too embarrassing telling people/ family, not only that .. we have learned too well in protecting you men.

By then it’s too late, we are those defenceless flies in a web.. stuck.
We’ve created security for you,
Raised children,
Gone on family trips,
Own part of the house we created as home- for you to **** in….

In a nut shell.. made total idiots and fools of ourselves!

why you search other women behind our backs…
If you really see it in it’s true form, it’s nasty. It’s devious and evil.

Yet you have no problems in saying I love you every day…!!

Some of you are as rude and shameful to even do it thinking .. we are asleep!

The shed, the garage, the attic, the garden, the summer house, the green house, the works office, the car,
Everywhere you do this!!!!

Again explain to us… just how we are ment to live normally once we’ve found this out?

Any advice???
Trust them?
Love conquers all
People change
Pigs also fly.