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Re: Husband left 2 months ago. I am so incredibly sad and need help.

My ex husband left me after 27 years of marriage, I am so lost and depressed, and want to take my life. My children don't even talk to me anymore because he has turned my children against me. This came about while I was trying to better myself, he took up a relationship with another woman. I was devastated, humiliated, embarrassed, my now ex-husband falsely called the police on me, not to mention he secretly put a restraining order on me, which was thrown out of court. My ex call the police on me , after inviting me to his brother house for me to hand him some annuity papers with my signature, then he called the police on me to have me arrestd, this could have destroyed me after working so hard to become a nurse, his lies almost ruined my life. but didn't because, when the judge asked the question to my ex, why did you put a restraining order on your wife? his answer was; "she is following me!!!! I turned and looked at him, my lawyer looked at him, and the judge looked at him crazily. I was dumb founded that he would put a restaining order on me secretly then call me over his brother house, and call the police to have me locked up, to show his mistress that I was a girlfriend, he lied to me and I dont know if this woman knew we were married. but later, she helped him with our divorced. I was so hurt by this man, it was like he was a stranger treating me this way, Nevertheless we are divorce,but damaged from all of the lies, manipulation, and deceit. I dont know what to do, I am so lost.