I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m also questioning if my husband ever truly loved me we were married 20+ years. Honestly, I don’t think he’s capable of honest love. I believe your husband, like mine, is a womanizer and will cheat on this other woman too. He sounds arrogant and narcissistic. I understand the pain and frustration you are feeling like it’s wasted time in your life. Hoping and praying for only the best for you in the future.