Maybe the name is not well thought, but I have the biggest dumbest question???????

My EX left my house to be with another woman. They live together, but all his work papers still come to my house. I have asked for him to change his address, I have sent some papers back, but some still come to my house. Why? Why? Why?

My friends and family tell me it is his way to control me and my family.(his kids)He has me in this freaking roller coaster. I want to send all of his letter back, then I think but there are from his job. You he is still supporting me. I still have not looked for a job and he still carries all the expenses of my house and his house with the OW.

He has taken me off all the counts he had with me and opened new with her name. Even the stupidest account like the movie rental place, but his papers from work are still coming to my house. His health insurance papers are still coming to my house.

I am confuse what should I do. Does anybody else have this dilemma, please let me. Do I just keep those paper coming to my house and just hand them to him or do I return them......

I put it back in the mailbox with a note that reads "please forward". This way I don't have to have any additional contact with him but he still gets what he needs. If I think it's a check, especially from one of his bigger accounts, I have held on to it for a few days then put it back in the mailbox. Now that you bring it up, I haven't received any of his mail for awhile now.

I agree with Becky, just forward it. Do you have his new address? If not, forward it to one of his family members. You don't have to keep it and give it to him. Even if he is financially supporting you. He's the one who broke the vows, you owe him nothing.