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Ex is spying on my cellphone

WE have divorced, but he still feels like he should monitor my life??? Somehow he's put this weird cellphone software on my phone called bigdaddyspy blueware, and he's been listening in on my telephone calls. The odd thing is that he hasn't had access to my cellphone, but he's still been able to repeat complete conversations that I've had with other people. The guy at the cellphone shop told me that I had this software on my phone-- If I wouldn't have taken my phone in for repair, I would have never known that my ex is spying on me. I don't want to report him to the police, but I have to put an end to his spying. Should I call the police or try to talk to him again?

Re: Ex is spying on my cellphone

You say talk to him again? You've talked to him about this or similar issues before? I wouldn't want to tell you what you should do, but if it were me you bet I'd be heading to the police. I tell Jerk that he left and he no longer gets to control me. And I hold him to that in every way possible. So, yep, I'd head to the police. Who knows what else he's doing??? Good luck with this.

Re: Ex is spying on my cellphone

Been there, ex bugged my phone, computer and house.

He didnt have to be in same room or near my phone, he called a seperate device and simply listened in. How he got my texts I dont know but he did.

I wish I had gone to the police now, I strongly advise you to go to the police from experience.

Re: Ex is spying on my cellphone

Do you know what kind of software and how did it get on your phone? Do you know what to look for to see if someone has something on your phone? Please let me know?

Re: Ex is spying on my cellphone

I agree POLICE, POLICE, POLICE. That is stalking. How creepy. Take care.