Womans Divorce Forum
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I had a face book did not use it much, actually did not know how to use, The Flea started having trouble at work because of face book, and he blamed me of course. I decided to delete my acct, he is still having problems at work and he still blames me. About your friends, if they support him and his new relationship, were they really your friends. I say NO. I had no friends when he was with me, I had no family,when I was with him. Now I have made some girlfriends that I believe are my friends. My family is slowly coming around. So do you really need those people who you thought were your friends. I say you are better off without them. Think about it. Take care and think of yourself. It is hard to do so, I know I feel exactly like you, I wish he would see big foot for who she really is, but he sees her as the love of his life. For now 
No, my common sense tells me that they were always more his friends than mine.
When WK and the Beast first "got together", they were AT this other couple's home. I, of course, knew nothing about it. So evidently this one particular pair of "friends" was enabling them to sneak around all along. 
The other so-called friends were, respectively, someone we have known for over 10 years and only as a couple; and a friend of my nieces, who is a couple years older than my kids. Compounding my hurt over the whole **** incident, the friend who only knew us as a couple is the one who was "persuaded" - via my ex feeding him a whole bunch of lies about how the Beast "holds the spirit" of my younger boys' late biological mom, whom this man was in love with - into performing the ceremony for them.
Bad news for them is that he isn't an ordained minister under the laws of our state. And thus, they are not really married. 