No, my common sense tells me that they were always more his friends than mine.

When WK and the Beast first "got together", they were AT this other couple's home. I, of course, knew nothing about it. So evidently this one particular pair of "friends" was enabling them to sneak around all along.

The other so-called friends were, respectively, someone we have known for over 10 years and only as a couple; and a friend of my nieces, who is a couple years older than my kids. Compounding my hurt over the whole **** incident, the friend who only knew us as a couple is the one who was "persuaded" - via my ex feeding him a whole bunch of lies about how the Beast "holds the spirit" of my younger boys' late biological mom, whom this man was in love with - into performing the ceremony for them.

Bad news for them is that he isn't an ordained minister under the laws of our state. And thus, they are not really married.

Yes, it might hurt now but think of it this way do you really need those people in your life NOW. Do you need them to bring you SH@T, from WK and the Beast, and for them to talk about you to them, NO. I believe in the long run, you will see you are better without them. I have meet some wonderful women since the flea left, some I keep close to my heart, others I keep at arm length, I like the people I have meet, some have something to do with the flea others don't care and just care about me, my kids and my life. Those I keep close to me. I thank
God for those every night, as well for every one in this site. With you I don't think I would have survived so far.