Well said, Susan.

Believe me when I tell you things get better. The Flea(EX)left me for another woman, then swore to me, on my kids life, on his life, cried and begged that there was no one else. He told me, made me believe the divorce was for the better. After 3 months I found out he had been with big foot for a year and a half. It gets easier, specially when he sees how you are moving on without him, when you see how he can't even hold his own head up, when you see what type of a man he really is. I pity the life he has, he is poor pathetic excuse of a man now, Now I see how this woman did me a favor. Don't get me wrong there are days I see him and want to hug him and tell him everything will be ok, but there are days I say that's what you wanted. So hold your head up and soon you will see, good things come to those who wait. I believe in that......