Thank you Susan! I don't think I could have expressed it as well as you did.

Great response. I live it and I think you talked for a lot of us here. Thank you.

If everyone agrees to damage limitation it may be workable but it seems to me most divorces are not amicable and working together is not always an option. Sometimes you are trying to 'work' with someone who ultimately wants to destroy you anyway possible, thats tricky!