I agree with Lisa. I still don't quite know what you are referring to about "people being against you!" I am not against you nor have I been judgemental about any postings on this site, aside from a couple ludicrous comments by seemingly egotistical & chauvinistic men. Your tone & responses seem very hostile. Perhaps you can clarify what advice you are looking for & why it is you feel like people are against you? I suspect that you won't be frequenting this site again. Perhaps a therapist might be helpful as the direct contact may be less conducive to misinterpretations.
Another thing that strikes me as odd is that "she" posted "her" weight with out being FORCED...what woman tells her weight with out being on a scale at the doctors office? Even then we use our shoes,handbag, coat, sweater, jeans, and earring as a reason for that extra pound(s). Even if we are comfortable with our body woman NEVER tell that secret. I'm comfortable with my weight but then I am %$? lbs