Hello,

I have recently made the decision that due to broken trust my marriage needs to be ended. We were together for about 10 years, married for less than 4. About 5 years ago we created a few porn accounts to make some extra money on the side. He has thousands of naked pictures of me and many videos of explicit activity we participated in over the years. A few months ago I found his hidden folder of nudes from his exes and he deleted them when we were trying to work things out. Got very upset that he had to deleted his memories that he could never get back.

My question is; is it right for me to ask him to delete all the content that we created together?

To you honestly think he will honor it? I mean he could just get a USB drive through them on it and then delete them from the hard drive and you be none the wiser.

If I do ask I plan to be there to witness the deletion to ensure it gets done. It almost feels, unfair maybe, as the consent was there when the content was created.

If your content was put online, it may never be fully removable. Many sites duplicate content and repost vids etc. which site was it posted to? That might help answer how you can get some taken down

It was on 4 sites. Twitter, only fans, manyvids and pornhub. I know there is no way to completely scrub the internet of it and it will always be somewhere. The sites are being my taken down just the latter takes more work to end. The anger has subsided some and he, at least for now, seems to be compliant. The personally saved on the computer videos I have not yet brought up. One step at a time is the smarter route I think.