I'm in the same situation. I love my husband so much but I know this isn't healthy for me and our kids. I'm so confused! I keep asking música am I that stupid for still wanting our marriage and him

I can relate. The sneaking around. The female intuition that someone else is in the picture. And then actually reading texts they have sent to other women. It’s all shocking and hurtful because we don’t want to believe that the person we love can be so intentionally hurtful and cruel. Mine never admitted any wrongdoing. How about that? All because he wanted to protect his image. Talk about not giving a **** about me. All I can say is this: lies and deception only multiply. They don’t get better and they don’t go away. If a man has prove. To you he doesn’t respect you, he never will. Stop waiting for him to magically do so. Close the chapter, stand up for yourself, and move on.