My husband and I separated, at his instance, early part of last year. I experienced unbelievable loneliness after the separation even though I knew it was for the best. I started therapy immediately after the separation and focused on healing. Three months after the separation, I met someone new and we started a relationship. I now have no idea how it is to be starting again. The new person has responsibilities and is taking things slow and I feel incredibly lonely that we are not spending as much time as I want.