Hi Kelly, this news came out of nowhere. I thought our marriage was good minus my medical issues. He’s one that doesn’t talk about how he’s feeling. I told him it’s not fair, if it took him awhile to get to this decision then why not take some time to try to get things back together.
He has said he wants to be friends but I can’t do that YET.

Hi Kellie, in another time of my life, I had a best friend who wanted to "just be friends". I'm totally there with you. It takes time when people out of the blue changes gears on emotions. As the recipient, allow yourself time to process and try hard to remaining normal emotionally. I lost it when my bestfriend wanted to be just friends. At the end of that, the conclusion would be we as individuals all deserve someone that will love us and be willing to be with us. Life in theory is suppose to be better by ourselves. Its a long journey, one which as we go through bumps in the road, it does smooth out. You'll start noticing all the things that was right and nice.

I'm trying hard these days with another issue, but I think the common thread would be try really hard and be good to yourself, take care of yourself. It does get better.