My husband is an alcoholic. I’ve tried to help him multiple times. Before his drinking problem became real bad I called him out on being a narcissist and gaslighter. From then on I took no **** and and spoke truth to facts. Even after that conversation he continues to evade questions by shifting the blame or changing the subject. Things have really hit the fan recently when he is constantly lying. Not only to be me but to others about our relationship. He is telling others that I am stealing his money when I he hasn’t had stable income in over a year and I have been handling the bills and the missing months by myself. He is telling them that because he needs to borrow money from them so that he can drink and someone has to be the scapegoat. My anger is at an all time high because he lied on me and character but what else can I expect from a narcissist. Our state law requires separation for a year with kids before a divorce but my issue is he keep showing up here because he claims it is his home also even though it’s in my name and I consistently pay the billls here full time.
Drunks are the worst and your husband needs serious help but that’s not on you to figure out okay? My father was an alcoholic and it really affected me. Depending on his mood he either loved me or treated me like I wasn’t his child. Your kids don’t need that. His lies will come back around to bite him in the you know what! Your character will shine through and nothing he says will stick. It will get better it takes time
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