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Re: Letting kids go

Let them know after the last game. That is the classy way. After the last tryout is a scummy move.

Re: Letting kids go

Other sports I've had kids in the coaches sit down with the parent and the kid and let them know where they stand at the end of the season. "These are the areas you need to improve in...." and "a) we look forward to having you back; b) It's going to be tough to make the team next season but you're welcome to try-out; c) you should be looking at other programs where you will be better challenged...."

Why are hockey coaches so different?

Re: Letting kids go

Because hockey parents are absolutely insane. But I agree, you should let the kid know after the last game and before tryouts start.

Re: Letting kids go

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Other sports I've had kids in the coaches sit down with the parent and the kid and let them know where they stand at the end of the season. "These are the areas you need to improve in...." and "a) we look forward to having you back; b) It's going to be tough to make the team next season but you're welcome to try-out; c) you should be looking at other programs where you will be better challenged...."

Why are hockey coaches so different?
Because typically the coaches kids including assistants wouldn't make the team so they avoid the discussion all together.

Re: Letting kids go

anon
Other sports I've had kids in the coaches sit down with the parent and the kid and let them know where they stand at the end of the season. "These are the areas you need to improve in...." and "a) we look forward to having you back; b) It's going to be tough to make the team next season but you're welcome to try-out; c) you should be looking at other programs where you will be better challenged...."

Why are hockey coaches so different?


It depends on the league.

EHF elite teams are picked well in advance of tryouts.

E9 finishes playoffs 3 weeks before the FED.

Some E9 teams had tryouts before playoffs.

This creates a tough situation for families and coaches. If I am an IHC or TG coach and I know I am going to cut a player, but want to give him a chance to tryout for BJR or VJW I clearly cannot wait until the end of the season.

I have to risk that my parents won't be a-holes about it and completely disrupt my whole team right before playoffs. If I want to be a good guy and give them a head's up, I have to trust they can and will handle it professionally. The problem is they won't.

It doesn't mean I shouldn't do what is right. It just makes it hard.

Plus in the FED if Elite parents don't get contracts on Feb 1, they flip.

Hockey tryouts are just different. The business aspect of it is competitive.

Re: Letting kids go

A few years back an E9 team in NH had ( Squirts) tryouts the week before playoffs. Coach cut three or four of his kids and then wished them luck in the playoffs. To make matters worse, he was making offhanded comments in the locker room before and after the game that made it clear that those cut were already seen as second class citizens and not part of the team. Kids were teary eyed the whole weekend! What a guy!! Not great with kids but if you like skating around cones and being barked at from Sgt Hulka like you are Private Pyle, you can sign up for one of his skills camps. Only problem is you gotta go up to Maine... and as we all know, nobody goes to Maine for Hockey!!

Re: Letting kids go

Reminds me of a Sgt Hulka story from years ago. Kids were on a pretty good tournament team which he coached and the last day after try-outs he cut a couple pretty good kids (maybe Squirt Major or Peewee minor). One kid had multiple offers to go to a better program but Sgt Hulka promised him a spot so the kid turned down the offers. Now the kid was cut and the other team was all filled up so the parent called Sgt Hulka and said "WTF." Sgt Hulka explained to the dad, "I had to put this kid on because his dad put a roof on my dad's house last month, and I had to put this kid on so his younger brother would stay with the program, I had to put this kid on because he has been with the program since we started it..." and the list went on-and-on. Laughable.