I’ll take “technical skating over speed any day...”...HA!! Sounds like the dad of a “stay at home” defenseman that gets burned by speed all day long and can’t contribute on offense because he can’t keep up with the rush or get by anybody. I’ll assume you’re of the “The game will change when they start hitting...” crew, too? As if the more athletic kids aren’t also the kids who’ll end up being superior when the game is more physical. Look, at the end of the day you can train all you want but your kids innate athleticism (or lack thereof in this guy’s case) doesn’t cut it, his ceiling is limited. I’ve been around the game a long time. I’ve seen kids work their way up, and guess what? 10 years later the fast kids are still faster, the weak kids are still weak, the kids with good hands still have good hands, the true competitors still compete...I have yet to see a slow unathletic kid with weak competitiveness turn it around because he “grows ino it”. Chances are that whatever relationship your kid has to his peers now will be true when he’s 16, too.