but what should i do? how can i handle him being this way? i feel so much hate and sadness that he rather love her more then us? what did we ever do to get that? what did our sons do? its funny but my love for andrew is still there and still waiting for the man i loved and married to come home but the way things our going i dont think that will ever happen. i work and go to school to better our lives and he works under the table to pay his court fees and so he cant get cought and forced to pay child support!!! he lies to me for no reason other then to hurt me. he trys to hide from us as if we done him wrong? hes 22 years old im am only 20 and have two kids and work and school i do what i can i would like him here and being with his son even if its not with me but he wont even do that> does he really want to go to jail for unpaied child support>? what the ****!!! how can u want that for your self how can he be like this not the man i loved and how can she sleep with him? arg i should not think this way it only makes me sick and wanting to call him which i must not do...........(sigh)
Amen Sunny. I agree, that was my experience as to the ex & seems not uncommon at all with men, as to blocking emotions & then the $, it is not uncommon.
& EXACTLY that they do not feel like a failure, so IGNORE. YEP.
Hi you should stop thinking about your ex. Delete him from your life. I can understand that man leaves his wife but can't believe he doesn't want to see his own child. You don't need man like that so consider yourself happy. About money he owes you, I am sure you can manage even without it and one day you'll be proud of yourself for making it on your own.