Very well said & empowering Estela. I do think when we spend our time & energy focusing on the past, it limits us from allowing the beautiful experiences that await us to enter our lives. We truly are responsible for our own happiness. You are all deserving of an amount of joy that doubles the sorrow you have been feeling. I also think it is so important to surround yourself with positive people & a positive environment. Comfort yourselves with whatever defines that for you.
~My prayers are with all of you~
I just have to say that I know its easier said then done but you will be happy again trust me it just takes time...its going to take time and you will feel bad and you are not going to want to get out of bed or go out but its something that you need to work on its a process don't think about what you had or what you lost...think about what you can gain, what you can learn out of this situation, start planning your life, write down things you would like to do for yourself what makes you happy.