Hi, I just got asked for a divorce today, I've loved this man so much, it hurts, it hurts alot. But If I wish him bad he still isn't going to change his mind, so it doesn't matter I wished him the best honestly and I want god to bless him and me also, we have a daughter and i just think we only have one life we can't hold on to grudges, I love him alot he is my life, but I can't stop a tree from growing or I can't stop a river from running. God bless you, I'm in alot of pain it's devastating, but I just want to give me the strenght. God bless you