Oh, man, Jen! I feel for you. In live in SD. I know that I can stop visits if my stbx is intoxicated, so I would think a positive for coc for him would certainly give you some rights, if nothing else does. Run to your attorney. I always read how the state is looking out for the best interests of MY children. Really? I can do that-and so could you- if the government would just let us parent! Let us know what you find out.

YES! You have every right to fight for you child's safety I fought and my kid's are not allowed around ex's gf alone for more than a few hours. I may not seem like much but it is enough that I have the control there. You have the right take him to court and make it so that he take a drug test on demand. they have home kits. If my ex even remotely smells like beer I have the right to stop visits. But you have to do this the right way, go through the courts. If you take matter into your own hands you will lose.