IM SO SORRY FOR YOU AND YOUR SITUATION. HE IS A SELFISH JERK, AND YES, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT LOSING WHO YOU THOUGHT WAS YOUR BEST FRIEND. YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS BABY DESERVE MUCH BETTER. GET AN ATTORNEY AND TAKE HIS ASS TO THE CLEANERS, GO TO YOUR LOCAL CHILD SUPPORT AGENCY AND GET SET UP FOR CHILD SUPPORT IMMEDIATELY!!! DON'T TAKE HIM BACK BECAUSE YOU'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM AGAIN ANYWAY. YES, HE IS YOUR DAUGHTER'S FATHER AND THAT WILL NEVER CHANGE, IT SOUNDS LIKE RIGHT NOW HE CANNOT COPE WITH THE RESPONSIBILITY, THAT IS SO LAME... FIND ALL THE SUPPORT YOU CAN FROM YOUR FRIENDS, FAMILY AND MAYBE EVEN A GROUP, GO TO COUNSELING AND BE STRONG FOR YOUR SWEET LITTLE GIRL... GOD BLESS YOU, YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS LADY!!!

I am so sorry for you, hang in there, you are better without him. Hopefully karma will come around to both of them. I am so glad i found this website to post on.. there is a lot of support, help, and understanding here and sometimes i just ramble on in a post just to get it out! It helps!

I was completely fooled by him for years. I knew about the emotional affairs he had in the past but I always forgave him bc I thought he just had psychological problems...I never thought he would take it so far as to have sexual relationships with all of these women but apparently he lied all these years and slept w mltiple women during the course of our marriage. How could I have been so blind? I saw all the clues. How could I have believed that he would never actually cross the line and make it physical? He says now that after the birth of our daughter he knew he didn't want to be around bc he didn't want her to see him for what he is!!!! And he doesn't even want to try to change for the better. What kind of man is this??

What kind of man is this?..."A COWARD"....They all are.

lying, cheating, running away it all boils down to being a coward and looking for a way out of things.

By my definition of a man, he's not a man at all!

I think he is afraid to become a father and still immature for that responsibility. He is not your loss dear, you deserve a responsible man.

My ex cheated on me the first time when I was 6 months pregnant. He guilt made him tell me his excuse was that life was just to much for him at the time, oh and that t shot( bottle) of Jack was blamed too.....
They lie, cheat and are complete a$$es and expect us to understand that becoming a parent scares the SH*T out of them. Well grow up! We are scared too and don't cheat, lie or stick our tails between our legs and run.
God bless you and this new baby. Your life will be so much better with out him.

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