Ladies,thanks so much for the words of encouragement I really need to know that I am not the only one feeling the way that I do. This morning is a good day! I feel strong and have a positive outlook but later the feeling s will change and that's when i don't know if I am doing the right thing by seeking a divorce. My children said they will respect any decision that I make because they want me happy. I know that I will not lose my children's love because they seen what happen throughout the years.
Lord help me and guide me to make the right decision and let me finally be happy. I have invited god into my life a long time ago and he has never let me down but sometimes I get a little scared.

Hi. am just browsing through to se anything for my own problems...one thing on the male species--They are NOT emotional! Thats why they can do this so easily, and then twist it to be that YOU are the on eat fault. At least you recognized the reality--Im still i denial, esp. when confronted and he lies to my face. Be strong-keep yur emotions in check-find things to keep the mind occupied, and hopefully the time goes quickly. Mary

I'm struggling also with how to move on.
There are so many things to do as to paperwork & dealing with the necessities post divorce. However, I am caught in trying to figure out if it is ok to date or not, interpretation of Matthew as to divorce & remarriage. My ex cheated on me, he wanted the divorce.
I've read so much in regards to this & there are many opinions & seeming interpretations as to scripture.
My only sure conclusion at present is, "God Hates Divorce," & it seems from our posts, there is a reason for it. It's not the natural order of things.

I am praying for you, poster, & all of us!