DO exactly what Jean says. Get a credit, hide money. Bid your time. Took me 9 years to leave my ex. I had a credit card, more money than he knew about. Amazing how much the electric/water/insurance bills were back then
My ex was enjoying his women and I was enjoying his pay checks. Stupid man never took care of his own bills.

You can do the divorce yourself if you have to.
I agree with previous posts, PLAN.
Also, people do their own divorces all the time.
It's smarter to get legal aid BUT the forms & instructions are typically found online @ your local court websites.
Oh, be sure to clear your computer history..
not sure who posted the thumbs down..
the stb ex ?
I'm not a man hater or men basher, but I was married to an extremely abusive man, so I understand the reality that comes with it (or lack thereof!).