RUN...I put up with that(verbal abuse) for too many yrs. to me and kids.They never change, they dont get better I kept hoping and praying for that, looking for help. It never happened. Then he filed for divorce, and told everyone we knew incredible lies about me and our children. All because of his personal insecurities. Now he is losing everything he worked for, but most of all the love of his children.
I stayed in the house, told him not to come home.
Good luck, you deserve better so does your little girl.

Trish what you are going through is something that many of us had. You are not alone and this is not your fault. You fell in love with a man and had a child with him because you at one point felt that was the right steps to take. Well now you know that his actions are speaking louder than his words and you have to take the right steps to leave, go and get out of the house. If you have no place to go then change the locks they are cheap at Home Depot call the police and let them know that you are in fear for yourself and your chid and they will put you on the right path. I wonder Trish if a friend of yours came to you with this problem what would you tell her to do ? Would you tell her to leave or would you tell her that she must of done something to set him off. I think that you would tell her to leave and that Is what I can see what most of us are telling you. He needs help that you can not give him, Now most men refuse to do it, well then he can be alone and should be alone until he decideds to get help. I also agree with the other response that you have to think about your daughter, my gosh he locked you out of the house.. he used a weapon at the t.v yeah it is a B B gun but it is still a weapon . Your daughter should not have to see and hear the abuse because you refuse to take the first step.. Please think of her and yourself. Who care's about him. Ok I know you do but I know in your heart you know your should leave . God bless