My parents do have a very storng marriage of 30 years and his parents of 40years +
He hasn't seen the movie, but I will get him to watch it (he is actually a firefighter so he might enjoy it!). I did have postpartum depression after my second child was born but I 'think' it has subsided.
After reading a lot of the postings on here about abusive husbands and also about nasty divorce issues, I think I really should be putting my efforts into rebuilding our connection.
Your right we have been married a short time and had two children back to back (I got pregnant on our honeymoon) so it has been busy and stressful.
I'll give the book a solid try. Thanks for your comments, I appreciate you taking the time.