I got served several weeks ago with divorce papers at my job. I was shocked and so hurt. My husbands career is traveling all over the country. Is most recent trip upon his return he was so different. I tried to talk to him and could not get any results. It was close to Christmas it took him 3 weeks to buy me a gift and claimed that he did not know what to buy or did not want to celebrate it. He had his heart set on his upcoming trip to the Fiesta Bowl and I was not invited. He told me not to call him that he would have his cell phone off. During all that time he would go out as he claimed to unwind and think about things and come home at all different times. He now claims that I did nothing for his wanting to divorce. I have been married to this man 20 + years and never had a problem except for 8 years ago with a co-worker who spent alot of time on the phone more than me. I wish you all the best! Who do these men think they are.
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I can write a book.
I waiting for my divorce papers. They should be arriving within the next few weeks. I am looking at that moment as the next chapter in our book of life. So, you are now starting a new chapter and this chapter is all about YOU! So, I hope it is filled with happiness, fun, love and everything you want it to be!!
I'm with you Ladyrb! I picked up the certified (or whatever it's called) copy of the divorce papers before I even left the court house last week.
In the settlement, I got money and he got the house. I'm still here in the same house with my ex and have 3 months to leave. I'm looking for a little place to buy.
Oh what a feeling! What a tremendous relief!
As you said, I no longer have to dwell on his well being or his needs. He can have that ---- tramp and I could care less.
Funny thing is that after a year of me crying and feeling torn apart inside and begging him to just leave her alone, now he picks up his copy of the divorce papers and weeps and sobs. Huh?