I'm with you Ladyrb! I picked up the certified (or whatever it's called) copy of the divorce papers before I even left the court house last week.

In the settlement, I got money and he got the house. I'm still here in the same house with my ex and have 3 months to leave. I'm looking for a little place to buy.

Oh what a feeling! What a tremendous relief!

As you said, I no longer have to dwell on his well being or his needs. He can have that ---- tramp and I could care less.

Funny thing is that after a year of me crying and feeling torn apart inside and begging him to just leave her alone, now he picks up his copy of the divorce papers and weeps and sobs. Huh?