I am going through that right. I think the divorce thing is barely getting to him. He has been looking for a fight for 2 weeks, I have been avoiding him, but Friday I fell for it and we have been going it at all the weekend through emails, now he wants for time and communication with our son, so now I am still a lazy, fat, good for nothing woman and mother. That won't give in to his demands. I think that is what hurts him the most. That no matter what he throws at me I will not, and won't give in to his demands. Hang in there. You will soon realize that man is just full of hot air.