Your most welcome @Justme, I know its all smoke and mirrors when it comes to putting on a brave public face for "He-Man", but I'd rather show some real grit than to wallow in pity, just for his amusement.

Humour helps mend a torn and bloody heart, but a backbone of steel gives us the courage to face another day. Stay strong, I am and so can you.

Ps, Does the song by Dennis Leary "Your an A**hole" count in this case?

Humour is my coping mechanism, and @Lisa H, I'm glad we've had a giggle at someone else's expense, rather that than wailing into a glass of Merlot.

I laugh everyday. Humor is my best friend.

You go girl! I love your attitude and I am looking forward to more of your pep talks.