Thanks Kathleen, what you said helped a lot. The only person that is making me feel guilty is myself. I think I have selective memory about the good times I had with my ex. When I focus on remembering the whole picture, I can't stand the guy! I also didn't anticipate the divorce being so hard on my kids. My parents divorced when I was a teenager and I just didn't want that for my kids (which is another source of guilt). Anyway, thanks for caring :)