Masoul hang in there. I know it is hard at the beginning but as days go on you will the difference in your life. For me he had a girlfriend for 2yrs before I threw him out. I feel my house less stressful, my kids are happier. I don't dwell in the good times since we never had any, I dwell on the fact that I am struggling financially and he is doing very good. Stay strong and you will see as days pass you by that it will be easier, I don't know if you have kids, but if you do hold on to them and you will see your life turn for the better. Take care ladies and stay strong.
I am so sorry you are going through this. Sadly, many of understand what you are feeling because we have been there too. It makes me SO mad too. You know if that girl was not interested, your husband would be home trying to work it out. I don't know how women can do this to other women. But one day he will do the same to her and she will be the one crying.
Be strong. Hold onto your family, your friends, your faith, and to the women in this room. Scream, cry, curse, beat the walls if you have to. But that feeling of total devastation, feeling like you can't carry on another second, it will begin ease and soon you will raise your head and notice that life is still worth living, and it may be even better than it was with your husband. In time you will wonder why you hung on to your marriage for so long. Your happiness is on the horizon you just have to wait for the sun to come up again.