Lassrlynn, It is unbelievably painful at first. Worse than death. But it does ease. It's only been 3 months for me and I feel a difference. The first few weeks are awful. I remember. I am so sorry. Nearly 30 year marriage, and he walks out for someone else without a second thought. I don't get it. There has to be that some men just get to an age and feel the need to try to be young again. That's all I can see. Hang in there, it will get better.

Yeah my guy planned this well. He insisted we needed to file for bankruptcy so we did. So bills gone, credit trashed. He bought a new car and wouldnt let me put my name on it. He left me with a piece of crap. He traded in my car that I loved to get his, tricked me actually. I have an Lawyer but have to borrow money from family to get it. He abuses ever system out there and I have a gut feeling he is going to get away with leaving me nothing. Now that my back is injured (because of him) I cant work until or even if I get the pain under control. He turned so evil it hurts and its all directed at me.

Thanks. Im not a strong person. I am really shy and very sensitive. This is ripping me into tiny shredds while he is somewhere sunny and warm probably screwing around with everything that walks by. Right before he took off I discovered that in January he had joined a dating site. My heart is full of holes. I am having such a problem keeping it together.

Thanks. I hope the judge will see it that way. Its funny though. He takes off and goes to where its nice and warm. To him he didnt abandon us. Well My daughter and I both feel pretty **** abandoned. He has really become mental. And his family is evil. They sue each other! They know there way around a court room.