Dont feel guilty. If I knew my husband was even thinking about doing this I would have started doing things behind his back to prepare because I know how mean he can be. He called me yesterday, he is also very self-centered, and told me he was breaking his promise to come back in June and help me move and at the same time get his stuff, but also threatened me if I didnt send what he wanted, he would file right away and not pay the bills till june and would take me off the medical insurance which I need for a little while longer. He is very selfish and doesnt care how much he is hurting me or his daughter. Hopefully she will be going to college in 2 years, but its hard. There is no reasoning with him on anything.