You are the only one who can decide what you want to do with your situation and your life. Right now, listen to Lassrynn's and Kathleen's good advice for asking help from family, friends, government or private organizations; your children and your unborn child are your priority now. After your delivery and everything is all right, you will decide what you really want to do; you can depend on yourself only to make you happy, and you always have a choice. Best wishes and good luck with your pregnancy and delivery.
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Oh gosh Amber! I do hope you have someone to help you if your husband isnt. You dont need this right now. Please try to take care of yourself!
Speaking from my own personal experience, if this is what your husband is doing now Amber, chances are it may not change. I say "may" because there is always a chance that things can get better, but I think in most cases it doesnt.
He sounds alot like my ex. I worked full-time...was gone 12 hours a day, had a baby, took care of the house, laundry, shopping, cooking, bill paying...everything. All I ever saw was his back walking out the door to do what he wanted to. I figured that I was pretty much on my own anyway so what did I need him for.
I hope really hope things turn around for you and those babies Amber.
Things were better for me too. I had a nice apartment and my son and I had our little groove going. It was nice. Now however I lost my job and the apartment, so were living with my brother until I get back on my feet.
Still, not having the ex dragging me down is worth whatever I have to endure.
Same here. Since he has been gone, all around the kids and I are happier, more at peace and not afraid to have a little fun. I also worked fulltime nights while pregnant with my second child. Functioned off of 2 hours of sleep a day because I had to watch our 3 yr old at the time during the day and do all the housework because numbnuts wouldnt help with anything. I did that throughout my entire pregnancy. Its really sad to realize how many insensitive, uncaring heartless selfish jerks are out there. Hugs
Yeah very similar to mine situation. All i could see after work is empty kitchen, and his ass stuck to a chair and the eyes pointing in the direction of playstation plus every month I had to buy him some very expensive gadget otherwise I'd get sielent treatment.
I now have my nice appartment (still half empty) and without him around I do not have to worry whether I pay bills or buy the food. My bills are paid and the food is in the fridge. I'm even able to afford once a month to treat myself to something nice.