Same here. Since he has been gone, all around the kids and I are happier, more at peace and not afraid to have a little fun. I also worked fulltime nights while pregnant with my second child. Functioned off of 2 hours of sleep a day because I had to watch our 3 yr old at the time during the day and do all the housework because numbnuts wouldnt help with anything. I did that throughout my entire pregnancy. Its really sad to realize how many insensitive, uncaring heartless selfish jerks are out there. Hugs

Yeah very similar to mine situation. All i could see after work is empty kitchen, and his ass stuck to a chair and the eyes pointing in the direction of playstation plus every month I had to buy him some very expensive gadget otherwise I'd get sielent treatment.

I now have my nice appartment (still half empty) and without him around I do not have to worry whether I pay bills or buy the food. My bills are paid and the food is in the fridge. I'm even able to afford once a month to treat myself to something nice.