Yeah very similar to mine situation. All i could see after work is empty kitchen, and his ass stuck to a chair and the eyes pointing in the direction of playstation plus every month I had to buy him some very expensive gadget otherwise I'd get sielent treatment.
I now have my nice appartment (still half empty) and without him around I do not have to worry whether I pay bills or buy the food. My bills are paid and the food is in the fridge. I'm even able to afford once a month to treat myself to something nice.