I would make it a point to advise your lawyer that he changes his story when he gets home. Is the house only in his name? Maybe the court would order that you should be allowed to stay in the family home? Again I think the best thing is not to discuss anything about the divorce except with the attorney! Set boundaries and stick to them. He can't fight with you if you refuse to take part. Just tell him he can present this to the attorneys and the court. Advise your attorney he has upset your child and shaken her security. Let the attorney know these things. He or she will probably contact his attorney who will tell him to leave the kids out of this. Doesn't look good to the court. I'm not sure about them making him leave? I would certainly advise your attorney that it is difficult for the children and see what the attorney says. I'm still living with my stbx and there is no fighting just stone silence on both our parts. It is just a waiting game for us. All children are adults and out of H/H for many years now. It is tragic that the kids end up being the real victims in all of this. My prayers are with you and yours. This is the time for strength.

I've refused to fight with Jerk. Funny how he can continue to fight even when there is silence on the other end. He continues to bring things up that he knows will hurt me...he must lay awake at night coming up with some of this stuff. I have told him I would not discuss it and to talk to his attorney. So his attorney tells mine that I'm refusing to work with him . Jerk, too, will put on an entirely different face when the attorneys are around. I can't imagine living under the same roof!

Men like him is why we HAVE panick attacks. I wasnt on antidepressants until after a few years of being married to him. Guess that says something lol