Dear Chris, I'm so glad he is worth waiting for! Like you said this will help you get thing settled before he comes home. Everyday I am so grateful my kids are adults and I don't have to deal with this! But believe it or not this has hurt them and my husband is their step-father.(I married my husband when they were one and three) What is the custody thing all about? Please feel free not to say anything about it if you'd rather not. How many kids and how old? Most states do 50/50 now unless there is a really good reason not to.Makes it really hard if your good guy stays in the military and has to move around. Just be strong for your kids and your good man. We will continue to pray for you.

Dont be sorry. I think a lot of us need a pity party. I know i do. I dont want to be alone either, so you arent alone. I dont envy you with a military man though. Thats what mine was before he left. Military life is hard for those of us who go in it late. I was 35 when mine desided to go back in. I couldnt get used to it. Its a whole new world. Hugs

I think I've been in a pity party for the past month, so let it out. It is the best way to get it over with. I think we are in the same boat, we all wanted to be part of someone's life, but we picked the wrong person. Take care and I hope you can straighten your life soon, so you can move on with your life.