Many of us who have gone through the divorce are wishful that we could take it back. My parents went through a divorce, reconciled, and later celebrated their 50th anniversary. It can be done. Unfortunately, not all of us are so blessed as to have this happen. I'd be extremely happy if my ex and I could reconcile, but I just don't see it happening. There are so very many problems and he's not inclined to see any way but his way. He doesn't know how to communicate. He only knows how to use people, including me No. I won't go back to that. Never.