You are SO right! IF there was love in that house it would include everyone. But it is hard to build a house of love and trust on betrayal and pain. She may not leave now, but the fact that she is saying it means it will happen one day and your jerk will know how you felt this whole time. My hope for you is that you are in a loving, committed relationship when it happens and when he cries to you, you feel nothing more than pity.

Amen

Nah, not even pity

Maybe it's wrong of me, ladies, but Orville Redenbacher is gonna be my best friend through this situation....she creates the drama, and I sit back with a bowl of Kettle Corn and watch and laugh.

And you're right...not even pity. Well, maybe, I Pity the Fool....LMAO!!!!

Oh, and a little more information on that situation just came my way. Evidently, the two of them will get into an argument, and instead of staying and working it out, perhaps even admitting that she was in the wrong, she gets in the car and goes "to visit her daughter", or "out".

The first time, she came home around 2 A.M., and then refused to get up to take my son to school (which was fine by me cause she's a rotten driver, LOL! Plus it gave me more time with him!). The next time it happened, she didn't come back that night at all. She claimed to have fallen asleep on the daughter's couch. Personally, I call BS. =)

Whatever the situation may be, yes, if they truly loved each other, they could work anything out. (He11, I know WK still has feelings for me, but I sure don't love him the way he thinks. It's more of an absent, occasionally-present fondness. It tends to last until the next time he pi$$es me off, and then goes away...kinda like a skin rash. )