Yeah they dont get it. My stbx is like that. He wants us to be friends. I got news for him. I dont want to be his friend. And I know, that when the divorce is finally it wont be over. Until the day I die he will continue to hurt me. It hurts so much when the guy you thought you knew ends up not being anything close to what you thought.

They don't get it. They really, really don't. Take WK for example: He cheated on me, moved the trollop into OUR HOME less than 2 weeks after I left, and still wanted to have sex with me right up until the day he married HER.

OMG Deidre. They sure are good at making us feel worthless and used. I dont want to be alone but I will never trust a man again. Dealing with this once in a lifetime is more than enough for me. The heartless SOBs. I am so sick of being used by them. We take good care of them and this is what we get for it.