I think we have all been there. We have begged and pleaded with this men and they just seem to think for what they want. Don't feel bad, look at the bright side, he is no longer your problem.

This is a conversation I've had with my therapist. I ALLOWED Jerk to mistreat me for 14 years. He did as he pleased and I tried to keep him from being angry. It was all about him. When I tried to make it so it wasn't all about him, a huge fight would follow. Why did I allow it? Well, I allowed it because I vowed 'til death do us part, for better or for worse.' I believed I had made my bed, so to speak. When Jerk told me he wanted a divorce I begged him. I tried EVERYTHING you can imagine. I, too, set an all time low. But I've forgiven myself. I did it for the RIGHT reasons. He made his decisions for selfish reasons. Hang in there.