Stay strong May...I think you are doing just fine.

He wants half time because it will be cheaper on child support payment. He wants all debt in your name but the courts won't allow it so just relax here. (family debt is a percentage...whatever the judge decide later on)...

He wants a schedule that your children won't like...but we will help you through it later. At this point, I don't think he cares much about their ordeal...but that's my opinion.

He wants an evaluation because in order to do all these things, he or his lawyer...will want to show that you are the bad one...or the one with mental issues. You are strong so you and your lawyer won't have much problem here. The psychiatrist will do tests that show these things...and he could come out badly in it..

Keep talking with your children. I went through a similar ordeal...and years later, all is ok.