Crazy how it works. You're the one that's Sleepless in St. Louis, but he should be the one that is sleepless! I have been unable to maintain my good credit. I always had much better creit than Jerk, and now because of $h/t he pulled I am left unable to borrow a dime. I decided to take a hit on my credit and be able to manage month-to-month. It wasn't what I WANTED to do, but what I HAD to do. However, my job is as secure as any jobs are in this economy. So what's up with that? The job?

I would agree with you that the divorce process is unfair. There is no consideration for what brought us to this point in the first place. It does matter what brought us here and I believe it should be considered. Hang lin there. Let us know how you're doing.