Susie, I remember when I moved out of "our" house. It was the only time I had ever seen him look completely defeated. Now, 3 months later, the few times I talked to him it sounds like he is doing just fine. Could be he looked defeated because he no longer could control me.

About insurance and trying to find some that doesn't cost a lot, I don't know that there is any that is affordable. Until I got on Medicare I was paying over $700 a month with $2500 deductible for only me. I could really get on a soap box here and rattle on and on about how we really need insurance reform in this country, but that's probably on another forum.