You are absolutly right Susan. If we can conquor the big fears the rest is cake. I was at church tonight listening to a sermon for fathers and the thing that made me so angry is that my kids are facing another Father's day without a father. I was so hurt knowing my kids have to live through this. These men have absolutly no clue how their actions affect their children (especially mine). He has lost his children but it was his choices that did it. They were totally innocent. Sadly, Fathers Day is just another day for my kids. But again, even they have to face their fears now. Way too early if you ask me. Thank you for your kind words.